Most of my close calls with homeless people are on the streets or in a library. I guess this could be considered the streets.
Previous episodes include:
- I was at the Fullerton library and a hobo (at least he looked and certainly had the urine scent of a hobo) sat down at the desk next to me. Oh boy, did he have a stench. But trying not to be blatantly rude and disgusted, I stayed in my spot, praying that my nose hairs would protect me from any gag reaction. Funny thing was, he pulled out his own laptop. Okay, so he could afford a laptop but not some deodorant. Even if he had gotten a donated laptop, couldn’t he find some donated perfume? Maybe he just has different priorities. Or maybe he was going to use his laptop to look up which deodorants work best. When I told my sister this story, we agreed that if we ever had enough funds to spare, we should open up a Showers for Sidewalk Sleepers facility.
- I was at the Pasadena library and lo and behold, a homeless lady sat down across the table from me. She kind of radiated some expired pee smell too, but after ten minutes of getting settled she actually sprayed herself with some body mist. Thank god, I’ll be able to inhale oxygen now. But apparently the library doubles as her cafeteria. She pulls out ingredients for her lunch – like some veggies, a tortilla wrap, and best of all – canned sardines. Now, I actually love sardines. I practically survived off of the 65 cent cans in Sydney. So I can tolerate that fishy smell. But I doubt anyone else in that library came with the intention of breathing in those omega-3s. Anyway, I saw that she was struggling to twist the cap off her pomegranate juice.
Me: Do you need any help?
She takes a look at my pitiful, preteen Asian frame.
Sardine Hobo: I doubt you’re any stronger than I am.
Me: Well, maybe you loosened it up. I can just give it a try.
She handed it over. I positioned my hands, turned…and sure enough, off it went!
It’s not about strength. But the size of your hands. In this case, my baby hands are especially designed to grasp onto small bottle caps.
She was pretty shocked, but mouthed a thank you and proceeded to enjoy her lunch from the sea. Later she left for a while, but her belongings were still on the table. I found her sleeping on a chair further away before I left. It reminded me of how my friend and I camped out at the airport overnight. Sometimes you just need a place to rest your eyes.
Okay, enough rambling. Let’s get on with the most current story.
The Specs
Who was he?
No clue, just some scraggly homeless-looking man in his 50s, or maybe 40s. His hair was a rust brown, with some specks of dust here and there. It’s hard to tell when they’re not looking their best.
What happened?
I was working on the screenplay (as all unemployed people in Los Angeles do) and I hear someone trying to get my attention behind me. So I look over, and there’s the homeless man.
Oh fuck, another hobo about to make me feel like a total selfish cheapskate for not giving them money. This would be especially true because I had my laptop out.
But to my surprise and pretentious presumptions, he held out some napkins to me.
Napkin Hobo: Here.
I just stare back in confusion.
NH: You need some tissues to wipe down your computer screen. It’s dirty.
Me: Oh, thanks.
I accepted the napkins, expecting he would turn and start charging me per square centimeter.
Nope. He just walked away.
When did this happen? Where was I?
This was yesterday, Monday, November 24th around 11:30 a.m. or 12:00 p.m. My dad and I go to what we call the “ghetto Starbucks” on York in Highland Park. It has a drive thru, but there’s only outdoor seating. I enjoy being able to soak in the sun because it’s the only way I can escape from the icicles of my house – even when it’s 80 degrees in LA. But sitting outside in Highland Park, completely unshielded can sometimes be considered a risk. Ah well, it’s been like five years since that girl was shot at the Rite Aid across the street.
Why would I take napkins from a hobo?
Well, he was offering. Hopefully he doesn’t have Ebola. I like to think this incident is sadly amusing because it means that my screen was so dirty and dusty, even a homeless person couldn’t stand to look at it. My standards of living could now be considered worse than a hobo’s.
How will this change my attitude towards hobos?
Sorry, no eye-opening, I’m-going-to-be-Mother-Teresa epiphany. I’ll still make excuses why I have no change on me. Until my student loan repayments are done – and they’ve just begun – and I can make more than $300 a month, then I might consider making an effort to check my pockets.
But I haven’t completely brushed it off. I can’t make promises, but maybe in the future I won’t always assume that someone who looks a little disheveled is out to beg. Maybe they have something to offer up instead, because they’re more likely to have a heart.
Oh great. Now I’ve given birth to the expectation that hobos will give something to me.